Have you run out of luck? Are you happy only occasionally? Do you let your feelings guide your actions, and are you slave to the situation? Does it matter what others think and say to you?

If the answer is yes, we both know you have a problem. Most likely, you experience stress, self-doubt, headache, or other physical or psychological symptoms. 

Can you change this, or are you deemed for a miserable and unfulfilling life? 

Of course, you can!